Grow up and blow away
Today i realised how lives can change from one day to another.
Sometimes, when you're an -apparently- important part of someone's life, well, one day you wake up and discover that person has a new life and it doesn't really include you anymore, even if you live next door.. why? who knows. Because it's a difficult period, because you don't see eachother anymore, because you feel left out.. it's a vicious circle, some are in, some are out, and when those are out, well, others are in... that usually happens with people you did not expect, you really get to appreciate, and no matter how many times it happens, well, it always pisses you off.
So saying, I came to a very sad conclusion: it is true, we are born and die alone. The only people who will always be there for you are your parents, if you are lucky enough not to have fucked up parents. [sorry, but it's true]
But that's it. No friends forever, no love of our lives, because they're not forever. They're just illustrations, hallucinations, pretty ones, comforting ones, relieving ones. They're temporary, just like me and you. Man has always instinctively felt the need of being with others of its kind, because he felt too vulnerable alone...
So there's no use in asking yourself "why, what happened?". Just accept it. Some things in life are beyond our power, and the only way to deal with them is to accept them without asking too many questions, but still find the strength to move on, and not remain passive.
I love my friends. I really do. But they correspond to periods of my life... it's sad, but true. I did not make it happen. It just did. Everytime i moved away, i left a period of my life behind, including people i loved and thought would last forever, and i blamed myself for it. Few are those who will always be there. And i know most of them are not going to be there forever; just for a bit longer than the others.
Recently, i stayed where i was, but it still happened... more than once. So see, it's inevitable. There's no use in getting pissed, eventhough it's a very normal first reaction.
Just grow up and blow away, and learn to live by yourself, because you're the only person you can really count on.
Sometimes, when you're an -apparently- important part of someone's life, well, one day you wake up and discover that person has a new life and it doesn't really include you anymore, even if you live next door.. why? who knows. Because it's a difficult period, because you don't see eachother anymore, because you feel left out.. it's a vicious circle, some are in, some are out, and when those are out, well, others are in... that usually happens with people you did not expect, you really get to appreciate, and no matter how many times it happens, well, it always pisses you off.
So saying, I came to a very sad conclusion: it is true, we are born and die alone. The only people who will always be there for you are your parents, if you are lucky enough not to have fucked up parents. [sorry, but it's true]
But that's it. No friends forever, no love of our lives, because they're not forever. They're just illustrations, hallucinations, pretty ones, comforting ones, relieving ones. They're temporary, just like me and you. Man has always instinctively felt the need of being with others of its kind, because he felt too vulnerable alone...
So there's no use in asking yourself "why, what happened?". Just accept it. Some things in life are beyond our power, and the only way to deal with them is to accept them without asking too many questions, but still find the strength to move on, and not remain passive.
I love my friends. I really do. But they correspond to periods of my life... it's sad, but true. I did not make it happen. It just did. Everytime i moved away, i left a period of my life behind, including people i loved and thought would last forever, and i blamed myself for it. Few are those who will always be there. And i know most of them are not going to be there forever; just for a bit longer than the others.
Recently, i stayed where i was, but it still happened... more than once. So see, it's inevitable. There's no use in getting pissed, eventhough it's a very normal first reaction.
Just grow up and blow away, and learn to live by yourself, because you're the only person you can really count on.
posted by Mikri Danai @ 7:11 PM
4 Comments:
Poly Metric akous kai se peiraxe ... Eisai stis mavres sou vre Da ? Tora pou gyrisa ela na pame gia kafe.
sta mavra mou den eimai! mia conclusion ekana apla! ti epathe to kinito sou kali mou, sto klepsane? na sou keraso ton kafe tis parigorias?
comme c'est à se tirer une balle ce que tu dis!lol,mais au fond c'est vrai que c'est plutôt réaliste...
What you said is true, to a certain extent. It's not that your friends have left you (i'm speaking for myself as well). It's just that at this period it's hard to keep in touch. However, if anything should happen, should you need anything from these people, they will be there for you as much as they are able to and their life allows them to.
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